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I cannot believe the nonsense from some of the people on this site!
Ermintrude - Yes you are probably right, if he is unfaithful with me, he probably was again (although, like I said i am not sure if he was married or seeing anyone, he could have met her later in the year) Hopefully he won't recognise me.
Dot.hawkes - what is it with you? Are you this revolting to everyone on here? I really could give a rats if you are 'buying this' - I do not need approval or to prove anything to some dog with a bone on a website.
Of course I told him my name, but after 10 years, why would he remember it in full? He referred to me by my first name all night, not my surname - so miss marple that rather sh!ts on that theory doesn't it?
Besides, I am being hired by the department head, not him, he is not involved with the hiring personally - which is why I am starting work but have not met spoken to him yet.