what u think to this?

[kitesurfer]

i have a girlfriend who is 27 years old. she is chinese. her male friend at work told me (as we chat like mates) that she is a virgin. Well she confirmed this to me and told me that she hadnt even kissed anybody before. anyway i had one date with her and then she came to stay with me and slept together. she didnt seem that experienced but once in the cinema she (i dont want to get rude here) 'went down on me' and it seemed like she had had experience...

Anyway I told her to go get checked out and she has Hepatitis B and it is active. She knew about this before and knew it was an STD. Luckily I am immunised so the risk is minumal. So she put me at risk knowingly.

But im confused weather to believe anything she tells me now. I mean can anyone give me advice on what to do?

[redcrx]

stop chatting to her mates

[sqad617]

Yes.....get rid.

[kitesurfer]

huh why?

[kitesurfer]

this is a SERIOUS question

[redcrx]

its not just an std.

[redcrx]

of course it is serious. can u see us laughing?

[kitesurfer]

what u mean?

[redcrx]

why were you immunised against it?

[B00]

Does her being Chinese have any bearing on this? I'm wondering why you felt the need to tell us that she is?

[sqad617]

WHY???/ why????? an "inexperienced" girl gives you a "blow job" in the cinema, she is found to be HBV+ and hey, when it came back positive she was surprised and no mention of HIV test........and you say why!!!! to my advice to get rid of her.

[kitesurfer]

because the culture over there makes it slightly more believable she may have been a virgin......

[Davethedog]

I don't know how old you are but you are either winding us up or you are stunningly naive.

Why did you ask her to get checked out if you thought she was a virgin? and how does a virgin get an STD

[kitesurfer]

i done a lot of back packing and got immunised against HBV. Squad she says her mum and aunty has it too. therefore could have had it from birth.

[sam100]

All sounds very 'iffy' if you ask me.

[kitesurfer]

i asked her to get checked out because I was unsure of myself so we did it together to be sure...

[China Doll]

Hep B isn't just an STD. Giving oral sex doesn't make you not a virgin, that would require penatrative sex in to the vagina.

[kitesurfer]

btw im 30