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Do you still fancy
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Thought about this at a party last night where there were obviously lots of couples...
Do you still fancy your hubby/wife/mr/mrs/OH/whatever as much as you did before!?
Was wondering if you still look at them the same way after years of marriage r whatever and feel the same way!? (in my case like "RAaaaaaarrrrr" haha)
I also saw a saying aswell "when the butterflies stop its the beginning of the end" so that inspired me too!? Xxx
Do you still fancy your hubby/wife/mr/mrs/OH/whatever as much as you did before!?
Was wondering if you still look at them the same way after years of marriage r whatever and feel the same way!? (in my case like "RAaaaaaarrrrr" haha)
I also saw a saying aswell "when the butterflies stop its the beginning of the end" so that inspired me too!? Xxx
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I still fancy my OH. Weve just celebrated 38 years married and 44 years together. Hes as gorgeous now as he was then. I would marry him again. Some people take their vows again dont they. I think I would too if we are still around in 2 years to celebrate our Ruby wedding. I think it would be lovely and romantic. A card from our son of 32, said we were two old romantics xx
10:24 Sun 08th Apr 2012
Gosh, Sqad, I should stick to medicine if i were you! I can see a lot of angry ladies emerging from the woodwork!
In my experience, women cope far better with the breakdown of long relationships, and it's the man who is left high and dry, because they tend to give up close friendships outside the marriage.
In my experience, women cope far better with the breakdown of long relationships, and it's the man who is left high and dry, because they tend to give up close friendships outside the marriage.
this is a difficult one for me been married 30 years and up until a year ago still had the butterflies and couldnt wait to see my husband when i got in from work for a cuddle, and if I caught a glimpse of him while we were out i felt very smug that he was mine BUT u knew it was coming lol... recently or in the last few months or so it all seems to be going a bit pear shaped dont get me wrong i still love him but he really seems to have aged and I also seem to have changed I want romance and I want to know that hes with me because he wants to be and not because Im what hes got? He assures me he loves me but it desnt seem to be enough for me.. Im wondering if its because my family are now independent and because I am a very tactile loving person and they dont need this so much now, and obviously not getting the cuddles and affection from them either I am feeling like a puppy being starved of affection. I know I have the problem and we are talking it through so hopefully will get there eventually!!