Lapdancing is it cheating??

[tinkerbell23]

Further to my thread
http://www.theanswerb...3.html#answer-7243162

Just had friend on phone again.

Would you class a visit to a lapdancing club & paying for a private session a dumpable offence? Or even cheating?

The guy in question was alone btw. Not in a group :0(

[Sqad]

NoM.....we will have to agree to disagree.

[jno]

Mick, it seems there were two sessions, £120 each.

Also raises the question: why the second session?

[Mick-Talbot]

you could buy a real bike for £240 and ride it as much as you want.

[EvianBaby]

Doesn't it depend on what your friend considers cheating and what this guy actually got up up. As per my answers in your other post, it's not cheating.

[tinkerbell23]

I think she deserves better.... Much better.

Thanks for your opinions....

X

[alvina]

To me it would be a dumpable offence - you would have to question his view of women in general. If it was with a random person from a nightclub - even if he hadn't touched her it would be cheating. It's certainly really disrespectful to his partner.

[Annna]

Not sure if this can be called cheating, but it is hurtful and disrespectful to ones partner. I would not want to be with someone who would go to this sort of place and pay for this type of service. Tell her to dump him and respect herself.

[islasmum]

I can see a man going to a lapdancing club as a group of blokes having a laugh, but by himslf - twice? I'd need to think about the future together.

[Sqad]

You women tend to have high and unrealistic morals in which the majority of men will never achieve.

Massage parlours, lap dancing, prostitutes are all involved in a phase than men go through in "growing up".....some never achieve that perfect phase of growing up.

Escort agencies, massage parlours, prostitution are a thriving industry............any ideas why?

[woofgang]

Then "the majority of men"don't deserve "us women"

I do have to wonder though, what the basis is for your sweeping statements?

[Sqad]

woofgang

\\\ do have to wonder though, what the basis is for your sweeping statements?\\\\

Just personal appreciation of the life of a group of males over a lifetime of interest.

[jno]

perhaps tinks' friend (and maybe tinks herself) would prefer a grown-up man? That would be a good reason for not choosing someone who was to be found in private lapdancing sessions.

[Duncer]

"Massage parlours, lap dancing, prostitutes are all involved in a phase than men go through in "growing up".....some never achieve that perfect phase of growing up."

I've grown all the way to middle age without the need to visit any of these, and I was certainly no shrinking violet.

[Sqad]

Duncer....good.......that answer will go down well with the voters.

[Duncer]

I'm not canvassing votes, that's how it is.

[Mick-Talbot]

Me too .... though that could be because I'm too tight to waste my money on that sort of ...er ..entertainment?

[Duncer]

I always found it for free, although I would have been too tight anyway.

[woofgang]

well yes Sqad but i am betting that the group of males was some kind of peer group and therefore likely to have certain similarities? Therefore the transferability of the research would be limited.

[Sqad]

woofgang......maybe!......maybe!

[woofgang]

Sqad.....how did I know that <rolls eyes>