Lapdancing is it cheating??

[tinkerbell23]

Further to my thread
http://www.theanswerb...3.html#answer-7243162

Just had friend on phone again.

Would you class a visit to a lapdancing club & paying for a private session a dumpable offence? Or even cheating?

The guy in question was alone btw. Not in a group :0(

[Sqad]

\\\\Considering Sqad that we are very boring people and our social life is 99%inclusive of the other partner,\\\

That description doesn't fit very highly in MY definition of "all man" which you introduced.

\\\\\I think you must have a very old fashioned idea of marriage Sqad, and you are not much older than me.\\\\

Agreed........cus i AM old.

[craft1948]

To be honest if my OH went to a lap-dancing club it wouldn't bother me in the least....................

[ummmm]

My OH is not into strip clubs either.

[2sp_]

The nearest strip club to us is about 100 miles away, so I don't need to worry about Mr P spending all our pennies.

[Sqad]

ummmm....so when he went to Amsterdam with the boys, they just talked about architecture?

[Kiki-frog]

Nor mine. Just fishing, morris dancing and football (although not at the same time). Probably a darn sight weirder than watching lapdancers really.

[LoftyLottie]

And what does 'All Man' mean to you Sqad, someone who sneaks off to lap dancing, strip clubs to oggle/touch women and can't tell his wife. Not much of a marriage, eh!!? Or do you think he can't be 'all man' if his social life includes his wife. We obviously think very differently.

[Barmaid]

I went to a lap dancing club with a male mate of mine a few years ago. And he had a private dance whilst I was with him. Was this cheating on my ex?

It wouldn't bother me if Mr BM went to one but I can understand others not being comfortable with the idea.

It's horses for courses though - what some find acceptable, others find abhorrent. Someone has already said above that what Tinkerbell's mate needs to do is have a chat with her OH. Sounds to me like there is a communication problem.

[Sqad]

You asked me a question then answered it yourself............a bit odd?

[tonyav]

LOL, I knew you'd get a kicking, sqad.

[Kiki-frog]

Barmaid, I think it depends on whether or not you were the lap dancer in question.
;-)

[LoftyLottie]

I think that, if as partners you agree about things, that is what is important.

[Barmaid]

lol Kiki - if I got my kit off and flung it all about it wouldn't be tittilation, it would be defibrilation!

[Sqad]

tony...same old....same old.....I know my husband better than anyone........I know my child and he couldn't have done that......etc......ect.

[ummmm]

Sqad, no, lol...they went for the drugs.

[Kiki-frog]

LOL Barmaid

<wipes away tea that she spat all over the keyboard>

[Sqad]

This badge business has bored me and p1ssed me off....the thread has gone on and on and the pleadings more and more pathetic......BUT....Ed should have the "Mother Theresa Badge"............and i could put forward a few worthy candidates.

[ummmm]

Okay sqad...lol

[chaptazbru]

So are you angry with this thread or the badge thread ??

[LoftyLottie]

Sqad, you accuse me of getting at you and then have a go at me!! It is not same old, same old, I do know my husband better than anybody else. If I didn't then after 43 years of marriage there would be something drastically wrong in my opinion. He also knows me better than anybody else.

Don't tar all men with the same brush. Fortunately, they do differ, much the same as women do.