men are confusing

[xJx]

my boyfriend was rather drunk last night and rung me at 2:30am. we ended up talking on the phone for an hour and a half. he really opened up and was telling me how he wants a future with me - house, kids etc. :) this morning he rung me apologising and saying that i should ignore him cuz he was talking rubbish. i think he is a bit embarrassed but i dont know what to think now. he has asked me to go to his later today. men r so confusing!

[stokeace]

when the beer goes in all sense goes out tell him not to make empty promises when he has had a skinfull and not to play with your emotions

[TBDaemon]

I would suggest that you speak to him when he's sober, probably not today though i'd give it a few days for him to get over the embarrassment and for you to reassure him that you ain't scared off, or madly excited about what he suggested cos He could start to feel pressured...


But defintitely just raise the subject and ask him if he meant any of it..i wouldn't pressure into setting specifics like kids, or when to get engaged but just to find out what his thoughts are on the future...

[4getmenot]

its the drink. Saturday night I got a drunken text off my ex saying all 'you never know what you had till its gone, and guess its too little too late' might be telling the truth but until your bloke can tell you how he feels without being drunk then dont get your hopes up.

[Reverandfunk]

Rule of thumb, phone calls after midnight don't answer!

[Sasha13]

Blokes aren't always confusing - just pay no attention to any texts received after around 11pm on Fri and Sat nights!! If he says he was talking rubbish when he was sober then he obviously doesn't want to talk about it and I think you will be backing him into a corner if you raise the subject. Totally agree with 4get on this one - i've lost count of the number of texts I've received off people who are drunk in charge of a mobile. Can't pay attention to any of them!

[Roughquest]

Oh dear, I have had too much experience of drunken texts from men wanting the earth ! Alas - it is very rarely true and they end up regretting all they have text, which hurts.

However - they do say that people tell the truth when they are drunk - so maybe deep down that is what he does want, but male pride always gets in the way ! So its easier for men to deny it and 'blame' their moment of weakness on the booze lol...whichever way, please try and take it with a pinch of salt.....sorry, it still hurts.

[cartman99]

he may just feel like he overstepped the mark and wanted you to say how happy you were to hear all this positive talk...................................................

[LittleMissxx]

what do u do then with your other half is nice as pie normally but when after a skinfull is a total pig. Being nasty. Is there some deap seated resentment ? How many sorry's and "I didnt mean its" do I have to go through ??