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What should i do?? me and my boss....
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Me and my boss playd around alot yesterday for the first time. i went down to his house for a coffee which was totally normal because we have always been close and i always come and talk to him about alot of things. we started 2 talk and the topics led to sex / sex toys, He showed me a couple of his / his wifes and asked me if i would like to take a couple down in2 the spare room to try bymiself, when we got down there, he asked if i wanted a hand with it, and i stupidly said ok!! He could tell that i had always been attracted to him because hes my boss, but i never thought he would make any sort of advance on me and if he did it would just be sex but it went on 4 4hours in the end, he said he was going to make me orgasim once for every year of my life, im 18 hes 40.
He said it was about teaching me a lesson about getting to know my own body.
We didnt have actual intercourse but we used toys in both holes of mine and made me **** / suck his balls and shove sex toys up his bum.
He was spankin me so hard i wanted to cry!
O m g it was so awkward at work 2day for me, he came up and asked me if my ass was sore and i said yeah! and he said good i wanted it to hurt!! he seems fine but i have to work with his wife as well, and every time i look at him i just imagne everything we did 2gether. i used to look up2 him so much and really respect him. but he was so creepy yesterday, the scary thing is i would be to worried to say no if he wanted2 do it again.
it seemed like it was a big creepy fantasy of his !!
i did try make him stop at one point but he just held me down and said he was in charge not me.
What should i do now??? help
He said it was about teaching me a lesson about getting to know my own body.
We didnt have actual intercourse but we used toys in both holes of mine and made me **** / suck his balls and shove sex toys up his bum.
He was spankin me so hard i wanted to cry!
O m g it was so awkward at work 2day for me, he came up and asked me if my ass was sore and i said yeah! and he said good i wanted it to hurt!! he seems fine but i have to work with his wife as well, and every time i look at him i just imagne everything we did 2gether. i used to look up2 him so much and really respect him. but he was so creepy yesterday, the scary thing is i would be to worried to say no if he wanted2 do it again.
it seemed like it was a big creepy fantasy of his !!
i did try make him stop at one point but he just held me down and said he was in charge not me.
What should i do now??? help
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Your boss is a nasty creep who is taking advantage of you and abusing his position of power.
You need to put an end to this behaviour. Believe me, he feels nothing for you, you are just a plaything, someone to act out his fantasies on, he obviously can't with his wife. He will only want to take things further and you will come out worse for it.
I doubt this will be the end of it for you and now you are in this situation, he sounds like the type who would make your life a misery if you don't do as he wants. I think you should start looking for another job, or if it's a large company you work for, ask to be posted to another department or branch.
You need to put an end to this behaviour. Believe me, he feels nothing for you, you are just a plaything, someone to act out his fantasies on, he obviously can't with his wife. He will only want to take things further and you will come out worse for it.
I doubt this will be the end of it for you and now you are in this situation, he sounds like the type who would make your life a misery if you don't do as he wants. I think you should start looking for another job, or if it's a large company you work for, ask to be posted to another department or branch.
You need to leave your job now, don't even put this one on your CV & try to find a job in an unrelated field
You are perfectly within your rights to say no to this man & the first time you said no, he should have backed. Not wishing to cause you more anxiety but you've left yourself to blackmail from this man because he'll be in a position to prey upon your naivety - if you don't wish to pursue a sexual assault charge then just get away from him
You are perfectly within your rights to say no to this man & the first time you said no, he should have backed. Not wishing to cause you more anxiety but you've left yourself to blackmail from this man because he'll be in a position to prey upon your naivety - if you don't wish to pursue a sexual assault charge then just get away from him
the last time you asked about your boss touching you and asking you about your sex life people said leave the company and move on.
Youdidnt listen then so i doubt you will now. Is there a reason for this? do you really just like the attention he gives you? is that why you often go to his house when his wife isnt there
Youdidnt listen then so i doubt you will now. Is there a reason for this? do you really just like the attention he gives you? is that why you often go to his house when his wife isnt there
Right sorry, I didn't realise you'd asked several questions in a similar vein - what your boss was doing previously was called sexual harassment, what he did to you yesterday was sexual assault - he's a f*cking creep and your choices are very simple, either leave your job or wait for him to do worse
How could you respect someone who touched you up & asked you about your sex life? Do you realise how inappropriate all of that was?
How could you respect someone who touched you up & asked you about your sex life? Do you realise how inappropriate all of that was?
Where was his wife while you were at his house for 4 hours?
I dont think all the blame should be on your boss.
You are 18 so you must have known what you were letting yourself in for.
Most 40 year old blokes would do the same (not the kinky stuff) if the girl was so stupid to let herself into that situation.
Are you a Troll?
I dont think all the blame should be on your boss.
You are 18 so you must have known what you were letting yourself in for.
Most 40 year old blokes would do the same (not the kinky stuff) if the girl was so stupid to let herself into that situation.
Are you a Troll?
I think that the fact she hasn't posted anymore despite all you kind people taking the time to give her a proper answer just confirms what I (and obviously, some others!) thought when i'd read this - it's a jackanory job!
And IF it's genuine skyla, you should report your boss for a serious sexual assault and then take a good look at yourself and get some self respect.
And IF it's genuine skyla, you should report your boss for a serious sexual assault and then take a good look at yourself and get some self respect.
