Yes cuddleMe - I think men deserve a chance, just as much as women do, because not all females are willing to show their emotions and some can "play the game" as well as any man.
I think the best bet is to really get to know them - by talking, and making observations! Someone who just wants to get you in the sack as quickly as possible, could end up being a complete jerk. The way that a man treats you says a lot about him. If he's considerate, understanding and willing to listen as well as talk, you might've found a good one! If he seems conceited and just wants to tell you how good he is - run a mile!