is it fate? is it people thinking you are cool so they want to be around you?? ive been through a lot of friends who i would say were cool people with similar views on life but i can never remember how i met them....its making me think if i was more proactive i could make meeting new people easier instead of waiting for life to happen, true friends are hard to come by in your 20s .....im finding out the hard way, after uni went straight into a job, focussed on that for a few years now all i have are aquaintances .....it leaves me yearning for my uni days but i know with the right friends i can blossom again but theyre so hard to find.... ive been on dating sites etc but am just starting to doubt people and losing faith....i know it sounds silly but i tried filling my exes shoes with loads of loud laddy lads and its not moved me forward one bit to where i want. i need to take stock, i know what id like......but i want never gets......doesit????