what brings people together?

[monkhousebob]

is it fate? is it people thinking you are cool so they want to be around you?? ive been through a lot of friends who i would say were cool people with similar views on life but i can never remember how i met them....its making me think if i was more proactive i could make meeting new people easier instead of waiting for life to happen, true friends are hard to come by in your 20s .....im finding out the hard way, after uni went straight into a job, focussed on that for a few years now all i have are aquaintances .....it leaves me yearning for my uni days but i know with the right friends i can blossom again but theyre so hard to find.... ive been on dating sites etc but am just starting to doubt people and losing faith....i know it sounds silly but i tried filling my exes shoes with loads of loud laddy lads and its not moved me forward one bit to where i want. i need to take stock, i know what id like......but i want never gets......doesit????

[WhiteBear]

i feel exactly the same. im stuck. im very careful who i meet or make friends with. ive been hurt for trusting the wrong type of people.

im very private person so its harder for me to be the real me.

i think its fate, when the time is right.... they will just turn up... but if u try too hard they will never turn up, well thats what ppl say... u just cant win.

just keep searching, i think u just have to be there at the right time and at the right place......to b able to meet that special person. dont expect that person just to turn up, cos that will never happen.

ive pretty much given up... but when i think again.. if ive given up... i will never meet anyone. so heres my chance .....

A.S.L ??
haha not used that for a looooooooooooooooong time. so what's ya A.S.L ??

[monkhousebob]

have 1 of the 3 lol. i have looks but no gab or money!! as tor asl im 24 m chester. how about you?

[WhiteBear]

hi monk

is chester near Liverpool or is that Cheshire? i always get confused!

i wish you were a wee bit older monk :( ya too young for me.

im a Yorkshire lass over 25 but under 30 lol... lets say inbetween :(

[Rtaxron]

That would make you 27 and a half then WhiteBear?

[monkhousebob]

im really 27 i say 24 as i thought you might be younger!!! so would u date someone 27.??

[WhiteBear]

well Rtaxron, how precise do i have to be?? lol

[monkhousebob]

chester is cheshire bout 30 mins from liverpool

[WhiteBear]

lol monk!!!

[WhiteBear]

is it where Hollyoaks is set??

i used to live in Liverpool!! soo what is ya real age?? do u drive a nice car ;) x

[monkhousebob]

come on whitey, can email u a few pics if u dont believe me

[monkhousebob]

yeah its where hollyoaks is set, being honest im about to turn 27 and drive a nice car, nothing flash mind!!!

[WhiteBear]

aww monk.... go on then :)

u have pm on sports section?


Oh-No-NoKnow: ermm if u keep turnin up to funerals u wont have anyone left! silly!

[monkhousebob]

no i dont sorry.....do u have an email or want my number?x

[monkhousebob]

u gone quiet haha

[Petal~flower]

you're trying to hard monkhousebob!

[WhiteBear]

i havent gone quiet ive been replying to otherpost :)

get ya self onto the sports section and sign up for the pm thing... u dont want to post ya email etc on here do u ? lol

[legend_mark3]

quick hello to petal.


i told ya sleepy would be back.

she was on today, so no harm done .

bye x

[monkhousebob]

nobody else will use my email...haha...if i do the pm thing it means switching computers...have you got time to wait?