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What would you do if your going out with someone but like someone else?
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dont know how to word this without ounding like a **** here so here goes.
i dont want to give out names here so ok, im going out with someone named mike and i loce him so much, we've been going out for 3 month i've known him since i've been 3 and we got together and we are really close but we dont hold hands or kiss or anything the nearest we got was hugging, i am awake with this being my first boyfrine we're both shy to make a first move.
but i also like someone called bob, he is great we get along great same as mike but i know bob is more forward with things , fair enough i would still be shy to like do things but i know he would make the first move, with mike it's always me who has to make the first move.
i know bob could give me what i would like, but i am going out with mike and loved him more than bob, im so confused and about mike and bob the first names i thought of lols, please help would be appreishated
it's not like i dont love mike anymore because i do very much
i dont want to give out names here so ok, im going out with someone named mike and i loce him so much, we've been going out for 3 month i've known him since i've been 3 and we got together and we are really close but we dont hold hands or kiss or anything the nearest we got was hugging, i am awake with this being my first boyfrine we're both shy to make a first move.
but i also like someone called bob, he is great we get along great same as mike but i know bob is more forward with things , fair enough i would still be shy to like do things but i know he would make the first move, with mike it's always me who has to make the first move.
i know bob could give me what i would like, but i am going out with mike and loved him more than bob, im so confused and about mike and bob the first names i thought of lols, please help would be appreishated
it's not like i dont love mike anymore because i do very much
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"me and my boyfriend have been going out for 3 month and like he hasnt kissed or held my hand yet, we're too nervous to make a first move. i just dont know what to do, im 16 and im female lol if it wasnt obvious"
Even has the same phrase "to make a first move" and also as in above question says no kissing or hand holding.
Dont know why you are pretending not to be same person.
"me and my boyfriend have been going out for 3 month and like he hasnt kissed or held my hand yet, we're too nervous to make a first move. i just dont know what to do, im 16 and im female lol if it wasnt obvious"
Even has the same phrase "to make a first move" and also as in above question says no kissing or hand holding.
Dont know why you are pretending not to be same person.
This kind of problem seems to attract some pretty facile asnwers, but you're serious, so I'll be serious too. If you love Mike, you love him enough to address problems instead of running after the first guy who doesn't appear to present them. If you leave Mike for Bob, then likewise one day you'll be leaving Bob for someone who doesn't fail to live up to your requirements 100%. If you love Mike, you won't leave him, full stop. Don't confuse and complicate your life by failing to address an issue and running away from it. Don't threaten Mike you'll have to leave him, just try and make him see how you'd like him to be more willing to make the first moves. Bless him - and love every move he feels able to make! Forget the 3-some, it won't lead to happiness - many animals are monogamous, and human beings are too, unless they're depraved.