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Oh crickey - there were only 2 responses when I drafted my message back!
Again thanks andy-huges, incredible, you totally get it, I feel like you're reading my mind. Thanks so much for your support.
The fact is I am usually very upbeat, perhaps the unhappy tone of my message means that you didn't read and digest the fact that I am a firm believer in positive thinking, I really feel excited each month as I feel sure we must have done it this month. My post was that I'm starting to lose it after so long, and for US, it is a long time.
Yes we have been sensible, we have made lifetsyle changes to make sure we're in tip top condition, I have never monitored my temp, I don't count for my most fertile day anymore, we just go with the flow these days and enjoy all the sex ;)
andy-huges seems to totally understand that asking someone whose trying to make a baby to just forget about it for a while, is unrealistic. I wish it were that straightforward and it was somehting I could forget about it. Even if I could, I am asked on at least a montly basis when hubbie and I will have kids, I don't think I could get away from the baby making subject even if I wanted to.