What Do I Do About This Guy?

[abbeyleigh]

I've met this guy on a dating app who lives in England and I live in wales he wants to meet half way to go on a date. I definitely he wants it more than I do and I don't know if I want long distance

[douglas9401]

It could bring you closer.

[Prudie]

So how would you get there, this half way place?

[Hazlinny]

On your other thread today, Abbey, you stated that dating sites did not do it for you ... so there's your answer.

[ClareTG0ld]

If you aren't enthused about a long-distance relationship, then why go?

Or, if you want to see where it goes and fancy stretching your legs or whatever, then by all means hop along. But don't go out of a sense of obligation.

[abbeyleigh]

Train

[Prudie]

Do you text on this dating app? You are so monosyllabic on here, will he not be interested in conversation?

[abbeyleigh]

Message yeah I gave him my number now we WhatsApp

[calmck]

If you meet halfway you will have no back up near you. It is not wise to go on a first date without some plan in mind should things go wrong. How long have you been in contact

[abbeyleigh]

Couple of weeks and he wants to meet next week

[Tilly2]

Next, you will be asking us what you should wear on this date.

[abbeyleigh]

I never wear anything brand new on a date for someone I don't especially case I don't like him

[Hazlinny]

^^^ I thought you would want to dress to impress?

[MissTerious2]

!Abbie. You must have huge wardrobe capacity!

[abbeyleigh]

Well I got few outfits in mind I could wear but not as fancy as ones I been posting

[nicebloke1]

Very dangerous situation. Why? You've not met him like you say, you have spoken to him. And to meet someone on your own a long way away for the first time, is really silly.

[abbeyleigh]

I've spoken to him but not met him

[Prudie]

I totally agree nicebloke, why would women do this? You can't say anything though.

[nicebloke1]

^^^ I just have. :>)))

[abbeyleigh]

Not sure if I should block him

[Prudie]

When you are out at all these cocktail bars and nights out that you ask for clothes advice, do you never meet men? Does anyone try and ask you out in a face to face situation?