What Do I Do About This Guy?

[abbeyleigh]

I've met this guy on a dating app who lives in England and I live in wales he wants to meet half way to go on a date. I definitely he wants it more than I do and I don't know if I want long distance

[abbeyleigh]

We do have things in common taking lessons like dogs etc

[davebro]

//We do have things in common taking lessons like dogs//

Getting house trained ? haha

[barry1010]

Hazlinny, we really thought we'd be perfect for each other, we enjoyed the same things and had a similar upbringing and values

[Hazlinny]

Aye, Barry ... i-m-a-g-i-n-a-t-i-o-n can play tricks!

[abbeyleigh]

He's messed asking are we still good for Friday not sure what to say

[Hazlinny]

If you want my honest opinion, Abbey, I'd say give it a miss but then it's up to you and only you. x

[vulcan42]

Just say what you have already chosen as the best answer.

[abbeyleigh]

Said he would see me as much as he can I don't know how with work and if all my time would be with him if I see my friends then wouldn't see at all.

[Tilly2]

Are you working today, Abbey?

[abbeyleigh]

Yes

[barry1010]

If you have no intention of meeting him on Friday tell him today so he can make other plans.
I can tell you're not interested in a long distance relationship - you've never met him so put a stop to it now.

[abbeyleigh]

He said he changed his driving lesson so he can see me

[barry1010]

Don't be pressured in to seeing him just because he has changed his driving lesson - it really is a small thing.
Do the decent thing and tell him today.

[Tilly2]

If you are working full time you probably won't have the time to travel to meet him on Friday evening.

[abbeyleigh]

Sorry no I'm not working Friday thought you meant today.

[naomi24]

It sounds like you really don't want to meet him - so don't. But don't mess him about. Just tell him now.

[Hazlinny]

Call me curious Abbey but you said this guy was planning to meet you half way between Wales and England - how far would you have to travel to this meeting point and at what time?

[abbeyleigh]

In Bristol

[Hazlinny]

How far is that from you?

[abbeyleigh]

1 hour