What Do I Do?

[Wtfdoido]

Me and my ex decided to be friends after we broke up because the reason we aren't together anymore is because he wasn't ready for a relationship and he wanted to be free. This whole drama went on this week once I started to become friends with someone 2 years and some months older than me. He was thinking of taking my friend that me and him had *** so she would get off his back cause she was obsessed with him. I told her because my ex said it was the right thing to do. So this whole thing blew up and ***. But 2 nights ago my ex told me to pick. Him or the guy I just became friends with this week. I look up to the guy that I became friends with like he's an older brother. My ex got mad when I didn't automatically choose him. Then he told me no matter what we won't be friends anymore because I didn't automatically choose him. So yesterday I kept ring to convince him and eventually I just blocked the guy I look up to like an older brother without a real explanation. I found out today that I don't love my ex anymore. I don't have any attraction to him anymore. I don't know if I made the right decision about picking my ex over the guy I think of as my older brother. I'm not allowed to talk to him. Did I do the right thing? Should I stop being friends with my ex and be friends again with the other guy? How do I know the right choice?

[jno]

your ex has no right to prescribe who your friends will be. He's your ex not your husband. (And even if he was your husband he'd still have no right.) Tell him take a hike and call your new friend.

[Hazlinny]

Ex means Ex....move on.

[Maydup]

Yes, move ahead and don’t look back. Tell your ex that it’s time to move on as you both need to build new lives.

[maggiebee]

Maybe you need to put your past behind you and move on? Do you really need to be friends with your ex?