Do I Message Him Or Let Him Message Me?

[abbeylee90]

I'm meant to be going with guy I went on a date with on Saturday tonight do I message him if I don't hear from him or let him message me?

[Neveracrossword]

Abbey, you didn't really fancy seeing PG (pierced guy) again anyway, but said you'd wait to see how things went with NG (New Guy). Maybe you thought PG would do until someone better came along? Be polite and tell him you're not interested in meeting up again.

[Ringlet]

I can't believe this is genuine.  Book a boat to go on a date?  A bit bizarre.  

[abbeylee90]

To get to the place where I met him

 

 

 

[naomi24]

Ringlet, this might be the sort of thing Abbey is talking about.

 

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Cardiff_Waterbus

[bednobs]

My hometown (Portsmouth) has a park and sail system or at least it used to.Similar to park-and-ride except you got the boat round to gun wharf quays

[abbeylee90]

Is it ok to still go on pof?

[Neveracrossword]

Abbey, 'OK' in what way? If you're still keen on tracking down 'the one', you can go on as many websites as you want, go on  as many dates as you want, rejecting as many 'candidates' as you want... It is totally up to you. 

 

[abbeylee90]

Because I been on 2nd date with a guy and went really well so that why I'm aksing if it ok

[naomi24]

If you like this man and the date went well and you're seeing him again you have no reason to go on Plenty of Fish again  at the moment.  Why would you?

[Neveracrossword]

Abbey, but why would it be up to us to say if it's OK or not? Some people would say 'yes', some people would say 'no' - are you going to count the votes? 

PS If your full-time job is tiring you out, as you said, are you going to be up to meeting several guys a week?

[abbeylee90]

Well he said he be in touch last night 

[naomi24]

When do you expect him to get in touch?  You only saw him last night.

[abbeylee90]

Not right now I don't 

[naomi24]

Give it a chance then.

[abbeylee90]

He has now

[newmodarmy]

//Not right now I don't //

I cant work out what/who you were responding to abbey. 

If you meant you aren't tired out with work now, that contradicts what you said yesterday

[newmodarmy]

Are you still going to counselling abbey? If so it might be worth asking why you feel the need to discuss most aspects of your life, including trivia like which tea to have or which dress, and think out loud with complete strangers, rather than asking those close to you or making your own decisons

[naomi24]

There you are then.  You don't need to go on plenty of fish now do you.

[abbeylee90]

Even after 2 dates

[abbeylee90]

New the guy