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Basically my hours have been cut in selco to 24 hours for 4 weeks as I am not grasping the products with it becoming summer it is getting busy and they can't have another cashier with me so if I don't grasp within 4 weeks won't be able to have me as a cashier. I am very upset as I enjoy it.
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Abbey, didn't you have to get the time/day off for a previous haircut - as you told us you'd had it booked before you started the job? What will you do next time round, make the appointment and then assume Selco will agree to switching your shifts, letting you take a day off? You can't expect that to continue, surely?
Abbey, that's good if you're prepared to accept that you might not always get your shifts changed to suit your hairdressing needs! 'If I give notice they normally OK' sounds good, but I bet whoever's in charge of making up the rotas isn't thrilled! I still think that you should be doing everything possible to look a good/great employee.
Abbey, I think we'll have to just let your 'my haircuts come first' attitude go, you're determined to hold on to it. It's a slightly odd attitude, as is 'Do you think I can ask to come in later to work because I'm going to a friend's birthday do?' -you seem to feel work should fit round your plans, rather than the other way around!
Sounds like paranoia. You are being treated as youhave presented yourself. From what I have gathered this company wants to keep you - if only you will 'toe their line' (which is perfectly reasonable). They have made allowances for your problems and tried to help you.
I understand that you have made big efforts and they've paid off, haven't they? But you need to keep on making them.
Look at it this way... the peak of this mountain is you with a solid, full-time job (I'm right aren't I?).
You are in the foothills of the mountain. You've got there. You've passed (with help) the first slopes. Now you have the rest to do. Grit your teeth and get on with it.
Hair only needs a cut and blow-dry in the grand scheme of things, Abby (seriously). An hour at most. I didn't have a professional haircut until I was well into my 30's (marriage and kids put paid to all that).
Now I go every 6 weeks for a cut and blow-dry. I used to do my own colouring until I decided to let silver flourish!
You need to touch down with reality. You can do it.
PS Men don't want to marry plastic 'Barbies' - they want to marry real women. Hope this helps. :)
Abbey Lee please don't take any notice of armchair psychology. Paranoia is a serious mental condition which I'm certain you have'nt got. Perhaps just listen to advice and try taking it instead of trying to justify your opinions. You remind me of one of my children that has dyslexia and has difficulty making decisions. I can't say what you should or should'nt do, but maybe talk with your supervisor about your concerns.
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