i do pity her.
i pity what drove her to it, what kind of state her mind must have been in to come to the conclusion that this was a good idea.
its must have been a horrible 'place' to be in, and i wouldnt wish it on anyone ...
however, regardless of how ill she is, she still committed a terrible atrocity, motivated by jealously and anger and revenge at her ex - and for that she must be punished.
but she must also receive psychiatric care.
i am inclined to the think the 'lack of money' excuse was just her way of vainly trying to sound less bad for doing it - as though trying to convince people she had good reason and had her best interests at heart -
but 4 year olds dont have money - they are taken care of and this child had grandparents and a father to pay for her needs....
so the notion of her being destitute without her doesnt ring true to me.
it demonstrates that she knew she was doing something terrible and was desperately trying to think of ways to excuse it... the fact that she stabbed her then left her to suffer and die over the course of a few hours does not make me think of a woman whose priority is this child not suffering ...surely if that was her main concern and she truly believed she was saving the child from a hellish life, she'd have done it in a painless way - not attacked - and fought with - a 4 yr old with a knife!
but then, to think that that anything at all would excuse something like this brings us back to her state of mind.
there was a case of a man who jumped off a balcony with his two kids for spite ...
its not always a case of depression - sometimes its pure jealousy, hate and anger that erupts and people do blind crazy things in a rage ... then calm down...
i wonder if something similar happened here, given her threat - and when she calmed down she realised what shed done, she tried to kill herself?