AOG - "andy-hughes
I am very sorry for what your family went through especially the health issues inflicted on your wife, but one as you have stated before you cannot condemn a religion for the actions of a minority. I refer of course to militant Muslims versus the peace loving ones."
Thank you for your kind words.
My position with regard to the Catholic church is that dreadful evil acts are carried out in the name of almost all major religions - i would not single out Christianity, or a specific branch of it, although I appreciate that my posts may appear that I do bear a specific grudge.
"But even if you do blame the whole of Catholicism for your unpleasant experiences, why is your wife still a devout Catholic and why do you go along to their masses, myself I would have cut all ties with them long ago."
As advised, I don't blame all of Catholicism.
As to why my wife remains a Catholic, I put it down to the majority support she received from her friends within the church - clergy and congregation - which I think is the essential goodness of the human race personified.
I attend Mass because I like the singing, and I enjoy the atmosphere of the Mass, and the cup of tea afterwards. I am able to do this without having the merest scintila of belief in what is being offered - but I don't find that a problem. It is simply the ability to think differently that makes us human.