I'm glad you can't believe because you are right, fear, greed, and a xenophobia, that has NO place in the 21st century, has not triumphed.
Except for the bit that the English should be ashamed for not fearful like some areas, nor greedy not xenophobic. I don't understand why you think that would be preferable.
Nor indeed why you would want yet another referendum after not getting your own way on an issue, especially after already realising that breaking up the UK would be a bad idea in the previous referendum.