//Krom, but my choice is ignored ..... and I'm a woman //
In what way is it a choice?
When you venture outside your house, there's a world out there full of people who aren't you. When you go out, your sharing society with all of them under differing terms.
Personally, as I've said before, I loathe children. If I were in charge, they would be banned from just about every public place. But describing that as a 'choice' is irrational, because children exist and they are part of society - I have to put up with them whenever I go out and they have to put up with me. I can 'choose' not to share public spaces with them all I want, but it will not stop them existing or going where they are allowed to go.