Sandra is partly correct. Most of us will remember the days of our childhood back in the 1950's and the years of post war austerity, where lots of people were still living in slums, poverty, and war damaged towns and cities. Hardly any help was available from the state and parents struggled really hard to raise their families in those circumstances.
However, the circumstances now are very different and the reasons for those circumstances are different too. The ciricumstances now have been brought about by this governments' shambolic handling of the pandemic and it's indifference to the profiteering of energy and fuel companies.
Since the 1950s', successive governments have tried to help deprived families, not exacerbate the deprivation with ineptitude.
We like to think we are a caring society, don't we? Well, are we? You dig out the overcoats Sandra whilst you watch families going without or only having a little. Would that give you some satisfaction? Seems to me like it would.