bednobs - // "Is it? And you know this ... how?"
probably in the same way people "know" that harry is being meghan's puppet, he's weak, she's controlling, they lie about everyhting and so on //
Although the questioner offers her views and opinions , simply as her views and opinions, and there is nothing wrong with that - she is always keen to demand 'proof' from anyone else, who offers a view that opposes her own.
I simply offered my view based on what I have concluded from the media, which is all the questioner ever does - but for her, the rules of debate are 'different'.