I reckon on these dating sites, some people say something which they later regret and just don't bother to get in touch again? This chap did not make any fixed time or meeting place so how could Abbey possibly know where to meet him even if she wanted to do so?
Margo, that's what most of us are saying. She doesn't have to go - nor should she feel obliged to go - but she should let him know sooner rather than later.
Abbey told us at the start of this thread that he would be parking his car at the station and they would go to a pub. Obviously if he is a stranger to the town then Abbey would probably choose which pub.
Delete him now before you end up making another date because he thinks its only because of the weather. This is what happens when you make excuses instead of just being honest.