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For more on marking an answer as the "Best Answer", please visit our FAQ.When we returned from holiday years ago, convinced that my wife was pregnant, we rushed down to get a test done. One the way back, the car packed up, having sat for two weeks, it decided not to co-operate, and stopped on one of the busiest roundabouts in the city. A car with four really dodgy looking lads stopped and approached us. My wife was startting to panic, but they were wonderful - they pushed our car off the road, and jump-started it for us, and waited until we were mobile before they drove off.
I always try and avoid judging people on appearence, and this was another good example of why it's a good idea to wait and see what people are like.
I was in a huge accident on the M1 about 10 weeks ago. The man driving behind me stopped, got me out of the car, kept me wrapped up, phoned the police/ambulance service and my mum and dad. He stayed with me long after the police had left until my dad arrived, even though he was, by then, late for a meeting 100 miles away.
He is now doing everything he can to help me claim against the man who caused the accident. I can't tell you how terrified I was (by myself) and how grateful I will always be to him.
xx WS xx
There are a few things I remember.
Many years ago, when I was really upset because my wallet had been stolen, I guy asked me if I could get home, and when I said that I still had my travel card, he gave me two pounds for a cup of coffee, to calm down.
I thought that was very sweet.
Recently on a German site similar to this one, I told the story how my husband was in England, bought four or five boxes of PG tips and then lost them somewhere along his return trip, a girl said: Recently my neighbour gave me a box of PG tips. Then she sent them to me, without even accepting money for postage.
When at the beginning of my holidays waiting for some friends in Paris, sitting somewhere all on my own, a guy invited me for coffee, and took me to the Louvre to kill three or four hours.
Just little things, that really made my day, though.
So I try to give something back, occasionally, however, I realize that very often, I go through life quite thoughtless, like many people!
I was once writing a birthday card in the middle of the town centre, and as I was fumbling in my purse for a stamp the card blew out of my hand. I gave a half hearted chase but thought sod it, i'll just buy another card. Then all of a sudden this man came sprinting past, chasing the card! He managed to catch it and brought it back to me.
Another incident was when I was at work with a very sore throat. I literally had no voice. I served an elderly gentleman who seemed very concerned about me. A few minutes later he came back to me with a packet of sore throat sweets, which he had gone and bought especially for me. It nearly made me cry!
I always try and help people if I can - it makes me really happy to see someone else happy! I have given car park tickets with time still on them to other drivers, give up a seat on the bus/train and once I carried an elderly lady's shopping to her from the shop to the bus station. I think that if everybody made the effort to be nice and help each other a little more, the world would be a much nicer place!! :o)
As we were packing up, a young couple came up and asked us how many we were. We told them and they duly disappeared into the nearest Macdonalds and came back with hot drinks all round. We asked them if they were council employees or something, but no. They were just passing, they, said, and thought we looked cold, so they got us some drinks.
I hope they had a really happy Christmas, because they deserved it.
About a year ago I was on the North Circular in London in the outside lane going about 60mph when the alternator on my motorbike decided to pack up. I couldn't get across to the hardshoulder before it died on me because of the traffic and ended up stopped on the central reservation. I was just starting to realise the amount of trouble I was in when I looked up and saw two bikers had been going past, seen I needed help and stopped. They came over to the central reservation and told me to get to not worry about the bike, but to get to the hardshoulder. I managed to dodge the traffic (very fast and heavy as everyone who knows the north circular will know) thinking they were right behind me.
I got to the other side, turned round and one of them was pushing my bike across 3 lanes of traffic with cars, vans and lorries coming at him! When I realised I'd forgotten my helmet, he went back and got it for me!!
To this day, I truely believe if they hadn't shown up at the exact moment they did, I would have been killed. I couldn't have pushed my bike across the road like that (I'm a girl!) and would have panicked.
A complete stranger risked his life for me and until the day I die, I will be eternally gratefull.
it's lovely to see that there are still so many instances of people helping random strangers.
it's sad that in this day and age, a lot of people don't offer help in case of appearing 'intrusive' or nosy or the suspicion that they're up to no good.
a few months back, my car broke down on the way back from a festival - a busy road, and i was causing an obstruction...and not one person stopped to help...including a truck of Army lads! i was disappointed but not surprised. ( i must add that eventually a police man showed up and was incredibly nice, and the guy that came to tow the car was lovely)