I notice Theland hasn't answered your question about the Bible teaching you refer to: "I will therefore that men pray every where, lifting up holy hands, without wrath and doubting. In like manner also, that women adorn themselves in modest apparel, with shamefacedness and sobriety; not with broided hair, or gold, or pearls, or costly array; But (which becometh women professing godliness) with good works. Let the woman learn in silence with all subjection." This instruction for the men to teach in church, and the women to learn in silence works well in our congregation, and has done for many generations. As Nailit pointed out earlier, where other mainstream denominations lack power and authority in their attempt water down the instructions, true stability is found by simply answering to the words of Holy Scripture.