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Well would be lovely if she paid for her own use, own clothes, own transport, own haircut, own food, own day trips with the school etc etc. But she is 11 years old.
The idea of a bill, set me thinking, been on line and spoke to a very helpful nice lady from Tesco, who looked into her tariff etc, and it was a premium rate number that she had called, apparently to win an apple ipod or something, and it was continually taking money out of her PAYG phone.
They are sending me a new sim in the post, and they will help me put Adult blocks on the sim so that she cant ring premium rate nos. Also will arrange a data bundle. So it all looks pretty good, and most probably was my own fault for not looking into "adult blocks" sooner. In fact I might block the internet altogether not sure yet.
Thank you for all your help. No doubt the problems will get bigger (with new technology - and my lack of understanding) the older she becomes !!! Thanks so much.