Is it love when....

[Silversky]

When you still think about them everyday even though you haven't seen them in a month.

When they talk about their boyfriend/Girlfriend in front of you or even to you and you don't mind.

When you feel really nervous, and concience how near you are to anyone when they are on the other side of the room.

When just someone says their name (especially if its a popular one) you look up.

Even though it's a sunday, your the only that seems to be doing any hard work and you only have to think about them and you feel better already.

That your completely stunned when they compliment you. (Especially me, I have gorgeous friends, I'm not used to get complimented)

That even though it's 4:00am and you've been up since 7:00am you could still stay up and talk to them all night.

Either that's love or I'm a stalker.... Anyone else's opinions??????

Thanks for listening...

[bobtheturkey]

give it a week and they will be after your best mate

[Silversky]

Oh thanks, but like I said I haven't seen them for a month. And their best mate was with my best mate anyway.

[bobtheturkey]

are you sure that's where your best mate was? :)

[dot.hawkes]

It sounds a wee bit obsessive which is a potential stalker, I think you need to be a little more assertive and don't let this person run your life, even if it is from afar.

[Silversky]

Im sure she wasn't bob, I see her everyday. And he lives to far away to see him. :-(

[dot.hawkes]

this is confusing, can you go through the scenario again please?

[Silversky]

I agree, dot, maybe slightly obbsessive true. But I haven't brought the spyware or worked out where he lives... just yet ;-)

But I'm not the kinda girl to let a guy run/ruin my life.

[Silversky]

Ok dot, what do you need to know?

[purpose]

Obsessive works for me.

It's probably infatuation rather than love... but if it gives you something exciting to 'day dream' about in private moments... who am i to criticise!

Enjoy it.

[Silversky]

Haha, purpose. It was nothing dirty I promise! Honest!

[orange-gnome]

When you fall in love you can feel slightly obssessive! When I fell in love with the man I am now engaged to he had to go back to New Zealand (we met on holiday) and I listened to this one particular song over and over again every day until I was with him again...crying myself to sleep most nights because I just wanted to be with him. That sounds pretty obssessive even to me!!
I knew I was in love with him because up until that point I never wanted to get married (my divorced parents had put me off) and I knew beyond a shadow of a doubt that I would marry him in an instant and I wanted to share the rest of my life with him.

[jno]

sounds like love to me. There's not a whole lot of difference from obsession, but obsession is more centred on yourself and what you can get out of it, love imho is more to do with making someone else happy.

[orange-gnome]

100% agreed jno...I would do anything to make my man happy and hope to make him happy forever!

[jno]

guess you've got some tough decisions ahead about where to live orange-gnome... (I speak from experience, I am an alien)... also something for Silversky to consider. Turning love into the practicalities of life together isn't always easy. Hope it works out for both of you.

[Rubyrose]

If all those are signs of love then I am in big big trouble! Oh God... please don't let that be love! :o(

[Ashy5]

That sounds like love to me but I have to say even when my boyfriend talks about his ex-girlfriends i get crazy jelous.dont know how you handle it :)

[Silversky]

Sadly ashy5, he's not exactly mine anyway. :-(

[Silversky]

Hehe, jno. And your probably right, obbsession is most likely similar to love. I guess I must be in love, although that doesn't make me feel tonnes better, I'll most likely never see him again :-(

Even though I do talk to his best friend through email.

If your confused we all met on holiday. (That was something I forgot to mention)

Very sweet Orange-gnome, and I'm the same, there is two particular songs that make me cry because the remind me of him. (Grabs the tissues)

[orange-gnome]

Nah...its not hard at all.....come on....after living for a year in NZ I couldn't think of a better place to raise a family! We are staying here for a few years and saving s decent amount of money to take over with us and start a family.....can't wait!