Roy, I'm not going to go and re-watch interviews and piece together a sequence of events just so I can debate it with you!
If you look at the big picture, everything they've done they've done for a reason, not on a whim. They've given their reasons, in the interview, and the reasons they've given stack up with what they've actually done. The things that have made life difficult for them have been the family, the institution around the family, and the press - out of those three, the family is probably least of all (it seems to me).
Now, if you don't believe them, then you have to think
a) there's a different set of reasons
b) they would prefer to lie about their reasons than just tell the truth about the different set of reasons
I can't see any evidence of that and I'm not the slightest bit interested in defining for myself, or having others define for me, what that different set of reasons might be.
I feel sorry for the Royal Family, I think if anything it's they who are born into a life of slavery (but we'll call it "service" because they're well rewarded for it), with their futures chosen and mapped out for them, and not allowed to step off the path. It's an anachronistic institution and if it's still going in 2066 - 1000 years after William the Conqueror, and quite possibly with another William on the throne - I'd be surprised and concerned for them. For Meghan to be contemplating suicide is not surprising, however, and therefore I wish her and Harry luck in doing whatever they need to do to make them happy.