Do I Go Or Don't I?

[abbeylee90]

To this date met this guy online part of me is unsure 

[Floko]

The questions I have asked and advice given are what I would have given to my daughter as I wanted to make sure she was safe. She went on one blind date who she understood was tall and fair-haired, but turned out to be short, stout with jet black hair 😂

[abbeylee90]

Lol yeah one I met last year put on his profile he was taller then he is then turned out he shorter than me and I don't think he is as popular as he says he is

[Canary42]

If he was any good he'd manage to find a partner without going incognito online.

 

Abandon your keyboard and get out and live while you're young, otherwise you'll end up as an old fart like me.

[smurfchops]

Make sure a friend or relative is in the pub or wherever you are meeting this guy, don't leave with him, go with your gut.  Good luck.  

[jourdain2]

Canary may have put it fairly directly - but he's right.  Get out and meet people - do things that you like and see who also likes them: could be deep-sea diving (unlikely) or whatever you like to do.  Moere likely to meet someone with whom you have something in common.

T.B.H. Using an online dating site smacks of desperation to me.  I met my first husband at school  and then OH when we were both singing in a choir.  There must be something you are interested in apart from clothes.   Don't you have any hobbies you could expand?

[jourdain2]

Thank you for B.A., Abby.  I meant it though.  For relationships to develop you need something in common - that's why internet is very 'iffy'.  Think of what you like to do.  If you have something you are interested in - follow it.

[elliemay1]

Did you go on the date, abbey?