Hello Le Chat,
Very sad thing to happen,it makes you wonder why sometimes,when a good friend of mine died last year,the only thing I could write on a card to to her husband was " I have no wise words that I can say,to help to take the pain away, the grief you feel, the hurt inside,there is no place for you to hide, the pain in time will start to fade,the black will slowly turn to grey,the light will slowly start to glow,the pain will slowly start to go." I did not copy this it just came into my head if you would like to use it or part of it please do, Ray