Insecurities

[lifeandsold]

I posted a question last week about how insecure my wife was becoming over my secretary. Anyway, I took all of your comments on board and I took my wife out for a romantic meal over the weekend, it was an n expensive restaurant and I gave her (a lot) of money as a present to go and buy something nice to wear. So, we are sitting in the restaurant talking in general about things, our child, home, planned holidays etc when she asks me outright if I am having an affair with my secretary, I told her that No, I wasn't. She didn't like this answer and said that she thought I was lying and if I told the truth now we could work things through, but I told her the truth again and said No, I also told her that here wasn't the place to have a heated discussion about this, to which she replied I must have something to hide, not to want to talk about it. The whole evening was ruined and all I had done was try my best to make her feel special as you all told me to do. I have been given the cold shoulder since then and I do not know what else I can do. When we are in a quiet romantic place together and she still goes on like this, I can't see that there is any more I can do. Surely it is down to her to sort this out in her own mind now?

[makemesmile]

Sorry (blushing) have I brought everyone down? : (

[oopsydoopsy]

Certainly not in my case makemesmile. I agree with you - couldn't discuss my marital affairs as such.