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the girlfriend doesnt like flowers
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Yesterday I had a bunch of roses delivered to my girlfriend's house, which was a surprise for her. She said that nobody had ever given her flowers before and thanked me. Later on in the day she admitted that she wasnt a flowers kind of person and that she would give a rose from the bunch to each of her friends.
I didnt react when she told me, I just pondered about it. I am wondering if I should feel mad that shes giving away my gift to her friends, that she sounds unappreciative, or is it ok for her to do whatever she feels like with the bunch because they belong to her? Put it this way, if she dumped the flowers in the bin, am I entitled to get angry about it even though they were a gift from me and therefore are in her possession?
Im not going to say anything to her but it does make me wonder how others would react in my position. Your thoughts please?
I didnt react when she told me, I just pondered about it. I am wondering if I should feel mad that shes giving away my gift to her friends, that she sounds unappreciative, or is it ok for her to do whatever she feels like with the bunch because they belong to her? Put it this way, if she dumped the flowers in the bin, am I entitled to get angry about it even though they were a gift from me and therefore are in her possession?
Im not going to say anything to her but it does make me wonder how others would react in my position. Your thoughts please?
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I am not a "flowers" type either, but if someone was nice enough to buy me a bunch, I would put them in water and admire them until the died! If she wanted so badly to give a flower to her friends, maybe she should have bought them herself! It's as if she is now getting the glory from the present you bought her. She is definitely being insensitive.
technically, they are hers to do with as she pleases, even if it seems rude, she is actually making good use of the flowers by giving them to someone who appreciates them more than she does.it is understandable that you may feel angry or upset, but in the long run, she's done you a favour. if she hadn't of said anything, you wouldn't of found out that little bit of information about her. she was only being honest with you, rather than lying. doesnt honesty mean anything to anyone anymore? however, like others have said, if there are other issues with your relationship, then you would be right to end the relationship, but please dont on the basis of her giving away flowers! there are worse habits than that! i hope you figure it all out and do whats best for you, not for anyone else!! xxx