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thank you all so much for your information, i have to admit i am dreading the operation as i will be awake, but i am more bothered about being able to look after myself afterwards, i.e. will i be able to manage shower, toilet, dressing, but after reading your replies i feel a little easier, i have bought myself some medical rubber gloves and some extra large marigolds hoping they will suffice with the showering job, i just hope the operation is successful as i have had problems with my hands for a few years now and as i can't have anymore injections then the operation is the next step, once again thank you all