Keyplus, you still haven't answered my question. It seems that simply believing isn't enough for this God - he needs to test us too - so just what is this test you keep telling us about? What are we being tested for? And if the test proves too much to handle and we suffer a nervous breakdown, does that mean we've failed, and are consequently doomed?
Life throws so much as some, and much less at others, so if God is, indeed, setting the papers, we're not even all starting on a level playing field, are we? Does that seem fair to you? It doesn't to me. If the trials and tribulations of life are God's test, then for many, its a malicious one, and there's no common sense in it whatsoever.
I'll defy any parent who tells me their child hasn't disobeyed them, or hurt them at some time, but only the worst kind of control-freak would be hard enough, and cruel enough, and selfish enough, to turn his back completely and write that child off forever.