A friend of mine died in America - they had 3 grownup children. Husband married again within one year of her death. A girl who had two children of her own.
JJ I appreciate you may feel aggrieved with what Islay has said, but it's a little ungrateful to state "that you cant be bothered with the details in black and white to please the critters" because there are people on here who do genuinely try and help you and give you an honest opinion when you ask for one. So to say you cant be bothered with the details, is a bit of a disservice to those helpful peeps.
Although the time was not referenced at first, it became clear a few posts in that the death of JJ's friends a couple of weeks ago had prompted this chain of thought.