How Would You Feel

[jennyjoan]

A friend of mine died in America - they had 3 grownup children. Husband married again within one year of her death. A girl who had two children of her own.

Do you think it was too soon.

[Sqad]

If my "old lady" died, I would want a replacement pretty smartish..OR one already primed and lined up e.g a mistress, BUT..not for marriage nor would i want her to live with me.
Women often come with a load of "baggage"...kids, grandchildren etc. HOWEVER, i would take her out for dinner (occasionally) take her for weekends to hotels and maybe a cruise or two.
I return i would ask for my bed to be made, cook me a meal now and again and always look presentable ( as was the deceased) sex would be essential .......but we would live separately.

[Voltage]

you dont want much then sqad

[Sqad]

Voltage.......but look at what i am offering .

[murraymints]

lol Sqad..I'm sure there would be a fair few applicants !!

[Islay]

Thank you anthro, my sister has no relationship with my father and Stepmum because she was gobby about my father remarrying!

[Voltage]

".but look at what i am offering ." i'd rather not look at what your offering thx lol

[Sqad]

LOl...LOL...^^^^

[Barmaid]

I can understand why you might feel upset JJ as you probably miss your friend.

As to "too soon", I think that's up to her widower.

Just think about the nice memories of her friend and think how she would have wanted her husband to be happy. Because I am sure that during their lifetime, MOST people would want the people they love the most to be happy after they have died. And after they have died it can only matter to the living.

[melv16]

Sqad. Would she have to come with a defibrillator? :-)

[Sqad]

Melv......No, just a standard vibrator.

[Barmaid]

That's me out of the running then.......

[Voltage]

you dont know how a lucky escape you made barmaid x

[melv16]

Lol at sqad and BM.
Would a selection of silk blouses be necessary?:-)

[EcclesCake]

So you want a housekeeper with added benefits Sqad?

Good luck with that advert!

[Sqad]

Eccles...thanks.
Will be no problem.

[kvalidir]

I think you're after a call girl Sqad lol :)

[Sqad]

Kvali...no!no! no!....you have to pay a Call Girl.

[Voltage]

if you get a lady from the answerbank sqad least your no whats for dinner every night just look on here lol

[Barmaid]

Well that's a small pond to fish in..........

[Sqad]

Voltage.....too right. I think that i will give the AB women a miss.
Off to my Club now.