I’M Jealous. What Should I Do???

[AkkoHeart]

I’ve been dating my boyfriend for almost a year now, and we’ve grown kinda distant, since we don’t have classes together and the teachers won’t let us sit in our normal area. We don’t even text as much now. Everyday he ends up sitting with his female friend, and I’m starting to get kinda jealous. I don’t like being jealous, but I don’t know what to do about it. I’m too shy to say anything to him, cause I don’t want to be a burden. What should I do??

[NoMercy]

Ignore it and move on. He might be trying to wind you up on purpose.

[1ozzy]

Move on in life.

[waterboatman]

You're young, this will likely happen more than once. It's part of growing up.

There is someone that will want to be with you. He obviously doesn't.

[MallyJ]

If I were you I would start ignoring him. Don't text him and if he texts you leave it at least a couple of hours before you text him back...make out that you have lost interest except as a friend. Make new friends with other people and open up the possibility of new people in your life. You sound quite young so the world is full of endless opportunities I would suggest you need to concentrate on your school work and your future plans at the moment.

[Sqad]

If you are the jealous type, then you ARE the jealous type and there is nothing, but nothing that you can do about it. There are varying degrees of jealousy and of the most serious type, goes anguish, pain and mood changes which makes life difficult.
We ALL have a degree of jealousy and for some it is a sexual "turn on" to see their partner.."chatted up" but for others, it has the opposite effect.
Situation that you describe is that of a failing relationship....but who knows, human behavior and emotions are complex issues.
What should you do? NOTHING, just wait for a relation changing event, which may or may not arrive.
Jealousy comes with an inferiority complex mixed with an anxiety state.

[murraymints]

good answer Sqad!

[Sqad]

LOL...^^^ yes wasn't it! ^^^

[waterboatman]

I thought so too! :o}

[murraymints]

and while we are on the subject..just you stop flirting with those waitresses doon the club ! humph ! I'm watching yoooooo ! ;o) xx

[waterboatman]

Don't spoil his fun minty! ;o}

[Sqad]

Waitresses! WAITRESSES! ..these are hand picked well trained and dressed....companions....;-)

[murraymints]

I'm thinking of his dicky ticker !! now BEHAVE you !!

[murraymints]

hmmmm... :o) xx Hail Marys for your soul ! lol...

[waterboatman]

Define 'Companions'

[Sqad]

LOL ^^^^^....;-)

[murraymints]

noooo dinnae nae dae that ..EEK !!

[waterboatman]

:o}