Update to a few weeks ago - boys night out.

[PinkFizz]

Im still shaking as I write this and I don't know what to do.You may remember I wrote about b/f having a night out with lads and staying in hotel,etc and was I being paranoid.Well I have just gone to file his credit card statement,and amongst the mounds of transactions there is the hotel for that night - not the one he said,not where he said,and for the most espensive suite,with a spa etc and now I want to throw up.

[caz21]

Chase up the hotel again? find out the name of the person who stayed!

Is it a hotel near you? Is the date the same as the night out?

Just asking as I doubt the hotel would be on his statement accidentally!

Its obviously not a friend borrowing his card then!

[kick3m0n]

Pink.....sending you big hugs. Not surprised you reacted as you did, I can totally understand where you're coming from. Could be genuine error, of course, so I hope you feel a bit better having spoken to him. Hopefully it can all be sorted out calmly when he gets home. Try not to think the worst case scenario until he's back and had a look at the bill. Take care babes, xx

[PinkFizz]

Thanks all.I am gona go and get kids as arranged and will let you all know later what happened.And all your support means the world - it really does.

xxx

[redcrx]

Well at least you didnt scream and he didnt shout so thats a promising start.
Hope all goes well hun. xx

[mnko]

good luck pinky

[froggo]

nice one pink XXXXX

[~Wingnut~]

Good Luck Pink, try to keep yourself occupied in the mean time, all the best xxx

[Wee Kaz]

My fingers and toes are crossed, really hope you work it out doll x

[Dizzieblonde]

Sorry Pink - it's a kick in the guts and nothing anyone can say will make you feel any better. Just confront him with him and bite the bullet ((hug)) x

[blue eyes ;)]

i know what you mean fizzy,i was with someone who you couldnt ask anything to.and i always felt i was wrong for asking.hea slo had a daughter.sadly he was cheating on me and had been for a while.im not saying your bf is cheating though.best thing is wait until he is free,i know its hard but you need to think about what youll say and best time to tackle it.go out with some friends for the day and discuss.xxxxxxxxxxx

[inej]

Hi PinkFizz, i hope it works out well and there's a perfectly reaslonable answer.
I know it hurts and thing's are racing through your head but take it easy .
Hope it turns out to be nothing xx
Got broad shoulders if you want them xx

[PinkFizz]

he is due home in an hour so we shall see.xx

[lilacben]

Hi Pinkfizz well I expect he is home by now so all I can say is good luck. and I am also thinking of you. I hope everything turns out ok although I would be livid by now if I was you. How can you keep calm when something like this has happened.Of course you could alwas so you had had a phone call from this hotel asking for him. say it was something to do with his credit card he had used. And then see what he has to say. good luck and all my love Brenda xx

[atolhurst]

have you clarified who checked into the hotel.

[China Doll]

Sorry not been around a great deal today babe, good luck, keep us posted xx

[raysparx]

Hi pink,

Hope you are feeling a bit better, I have only just seen this question, I am sure there is an innocent explanation, I really hope there is, you are such a sweetheart,you only deserve happiness, have a good chat together, hope things are good for you,be thinking of you,take care, Ray xx

[kick3m0n]

Pink, might not get on again today, so just to say I'm thinking of you babes and hope it all gets soted out easily and without any more stress. tc, massive big bear hugs xxx

[PinkFizz]

hotel said reservation was in his name but I could hardly ask how many were in the room could I!

[joko]

call the hotel and ask for a rundown of the bill as you think it sounds a lot and feel you've been overcharged, when you and your hubby stayed there.
get as much info of what was ordered and used in the room that night, the times of the orders (which will show whether they went out or stayed there all day and night, or whether they were barely there) then you will have an idea of if its items for romance, one person alone, two workmates etc