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DotH | 17:37 Mon 28th Aug 2006 | Body & Soul
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How many of your actions and knee jerk responses to life are motivated by sheer jealousy? Honest answers only please.
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Hi Dot,

Got halfway through reading your adventure and whoooosh !! Well the hell did that go?

I can get pretty het up about things, but can't say all result in knee jerk responses...(well I hope not)

Have been envious a few times of people but (thankfully) never jealous...

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that is actually interesting the way you differentiate between envy and jealousy, what do you think makes one different from the other?
What have you done dot? Anything interesting?

I think I've been jealous a few times, people who are rich and have no worries but in my opinion have done nothing in their life to deserve it, usually I change my mind when I realise how disliked they are (usually for being arrogant).
Hi dotty,

I use envy to mean a desire or wish that I had perhaps the better fortune or looks of someone else...

Jealousy, I feel is a much stronger emotion through fear or resentment of someone, almost to the point of hating them because you are wanting what they have or feel (in a relationship) threatened by their presence...

Example: I am envious of Johnny Depp's wife - but I'm not jealous of her!!
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Jody I done nothing someone zapped my laboured -over thread lol
Hi Dot, I think it is quite a difficult question to answer as what to one person may be jealousy, another it may simply be ambition! I can't think of anything off my head that I could own up to, apart from a couple of bitchy comments about other colleagues whom I felt needed taking down a peg or two, but then perhaps I was just jealous!!
Cheers Sue
Dot, leave the voddy alone now .....it's joby not jody! lol
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I know it is but the letters on my laptop are wearing out and i miss type lol
It's ok for you Jody, I mean Joby, I'm still waiting for my marks out of ten!! lol
hi tictactoe .
dont think i am the jealous type.hi tictactoe
you're jealous of what you've got and envious of what you haven't got was my English teacher's explanation. Jealous husbands, for instance.
I'd like to think that none of my actions are actual knee jerk, jealous reactions, but I'd probably be kidding myself.
Well, thankfully I haven't got one of those jno lol
well, it's a fine balance ttt... you wouldn't want a husband who kept you under lock and key but it'd be nice if he expressed just the mildest twinge of concern when you said you were off for tea with Brad Pitt.
No, he would probably say "Take it easy and enjoy yourself"
i always think jealousy is a negative emotion but envy isn't.

i envy my mates new car, but i am happy for her that she has it and i wouldn't want her not to have it just so i could.
if i wanted it instead of her it would be my jealousy.

jealous poeple want what others have and hate anyone having anything more than them, but envious people wish they had those things too but are glad that their mates are happy and doing well
well there you go, ttt... a jealous husband would act as though he thought you actually had some chance of copping off with Brad... which might be the teensiest bit flattering?... whereas a non-jealous one would act as though he knew you were a complete non-starter.
That must be me then jno - a complete non-starter!! Lol ;-)

Perhaps it's an age thing - older and wiser, well older anyway.

Now if you had said Robert De Niro - then he might get a tad suspicious....

Well said joko, your def probably came over better than mine!!!

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