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NOT a sympathy thread !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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As some will be aware my children lost their children tragically (in a an accident) just 6 months ago. Its been tough - very tough as we have an impending trial. Today- his dad -my childrens grandad was found dead -I visited him as I was concerned as he seemed to have given up when Dave was killed and urged him to please start eating and think of the rest of his family (his wife died at 47) -he assured me he would try -remember I am now on the perimeter of the family. He came to see my mum and dad 2 weeks ago and spoke at length about me and Dave (my first husband and father of my children and sorely missed) and at that point I thought -he has given up -looks like he did. It wasnt suicide -he simply died of a broken heart -how sad is that and selfishly another burden for my 2 to bear-I am weeping as I type this. I just wish that the perpetrator of this event would have just pled guilty and taken the smack on the wrist and at most a years ban -but no -she had to take it to trial. Am I such a bad person for hating this woman with a vengenace -I would have held ny hands up and said 'Guilty as charged' but no she decided to not only try to keep her licence for a lesser limit but the biatch has now effectively cut 2 lives short -but given us all a life sentence.The trial starts at the end of April. (She doesnt have a leg to stand on -well Dave would have had no legs to stand on had he lived -or a head so its all incidental-grr) Would you blame me for being bitter and also what next ??????????????? .Can someone tell me -I have no emotion left for my children-its been all used up-how can I tell them its gonna be OK?
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Should have posted in CB and made it hostile -then i may have sparked an effing bit of interest but since im dealing with f ucking real stuff rather than petty getting back at you stuff -its boring - well lets not let real life get in the way of the cyber f uck ups on here.
Sorry misjudged a lot of ya -some too far up their own arses too even contemplate there is a life outside CB -yip you !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!-fairweather friend -frightened to go out CB in case it misses anthing - got the measure of you yeah you fanny baws -dont ******* come greeting to me anyomore about a 'cyber' slight -come back to me when you have something to greet about .
O u soooooooo know where youre 'cyber' pals are -do ya ****.........................................................................................its a game and I am Jason bourne
Sorry misjudged a lot of ya -some too far up their own arses too even contemplate there is a life outside CB -yip you !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!-fairweather friend -frightened to go out CB in case it misses anthing - got the measure of you yeah you fanny baws -dont ******* come greeting to me anyomore about a 'cyber' slight -come back to me when you have something to greet about .
O u soooooooo know where youre 'cyber' pals are -do ya ****.........................................................................................its a game and I am Jason bourne
Dris , So much food for thought in your writings, You have had a lot to contend with and I expect your mind is a circle of if's and but's, I too would focus on hating this person especially as she is dragging it out a little , I do really hope she gets her come uppence in the forthcoming trial, I cannot add much to make you feel better but send you positive thoughts to keep you strong .
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That's really tough Dris - there can be nothing worse than children dying before their parents/grandparents. I really don't know what to say, but that I am thinking of you and your family. There are some really ****** people in the world. At least these kids died knowing that they had loving parents and that they were wanted and special. As for this latest bereavment, that's the way it happens isn't it? My husbands Mum died a few months after his brother died - she just didn't want to live anymore and tbh it was the best thing really as she was never really going to get over it at her age - this was the 2nd of her sons to die and there was just nothing anybody could do to get her over it, and that is withoutt the stress and strain of a trial to go through.
You don't need to tell them it's going to be okay, because actually all you need to do is be there with them and support each other.
Hope you get better replies than mine, I am just not sure what to say.
You don't need to tell them it's going to be okay, because actually all you need to do is be there with them and support each other.
Hope you get better replies than mine, I am just not sure what to say.
Hi dris, how very sad! as if you havent been through enough lately, try not to feel bitter, I know its difficult because this person has ruined your life.
but your negativity and bitterness will only enveloped you and your kids, you know he would not have wanted this, try to look forward for your kids sakes and your own sanity.
If you dont there will only be more casualties
god bless dris
but your negativity and bitterness will only enveloped you and your kids, you know he would not have wanted this, try to look forward for your kids sakes and your own sanity.
If you dont there will only be more casualties
god bless dris
Dris hun, I can't even begin to imagine what you are going through. If it were me I would probably feel as much hate towards this woman as you do. I don't know how I would cope if anything like that happened to any of my family. I just hope she gets what she deserves and justice prevails. Thinking of you xxx
