NOT a sympathy thread !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[Drisgirl]

As some will be aware my children lost their children tragically (in a an accident) just 6 months ago. Its been tough - very tough as we have an impending trial. Today- his dad -my childrens grandad was found dead -I visited him as I was concerned as he seemed to have given up when Dave was killed and urged him to please start eating and think of the rest of his family (his wife died at 47) -he assured me he would try -remember I am now on the perimeter of the family. He came to see my mum and dad 2 weeks ago and spoke at length about me and Dave (my first husband and father of my children and sorely missed) and at that point I thought -he has given up -looks like he did. It wasnt suicide -he simply died of a broken heart -how sad is that and selfishly another burden for my 2 to bear-I am weeping as I type this. I just wish that the perpetrator of this event would have just pled guilty and taken the smack on the wrist and at most a years ban -but no -she had to take it to trial. Am I such a bad person for hating this woman with a vengenace -I would have held ny hands up and said 'Guilty as charged' but no she decided to not only try to keep her licence for a lesser limit but the biatch has now effectively cut 2 lives short -but given us all a life sentence.The trial starts at the end of April. (She doesnt have a leg to stand on -well Dave would have had no legs to stand on had he lived -or a head so its all incidental-grr) Would you blame me for being bitter and also what next ??????????????? .Can someone tell me -I have no emotion left for my children-its been all used up-how can I tell them its gonna be OK?

[hau kola]

Hi Dris,ive PM`d you.x

[Chaterbox]

i feel your burden of pain and sympathise with you, but bejesus, how many times will you post this on ab?

[hussy]

sorry dris if ive been insensitive babes as i have a lot of time for you....

bit prissed so didnt take in everything you posted at first....


hope your ok and dont think like that!!
you are a wonderful mummy that loves her kids and only wants the vest for them like most of us on here

[hussy]

sorry dris if ive been insensitive babes as i have a lot of time for you....

bit prissed so didnt take in everything you posted at first....


be strong my wee scottish mucker
xxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

[pastafreak]

Oh god,dris...i am crying for you here......and I REALLY don't know what to say to you. I know that you have been a rock these past few months, and I know that your children are old enough to stand strong on their own....maybe you will need to gather some strength FROM them now. it is not a one-way system in close families....they can give back to you-their mum-some of thestrength that has come from YOU over the years.....try to lean on them a bit ,hun. it is not a bad thing,and you will all feel better for it. xx

[NS08]

People are actually apologising for not responding quick enough for her?

FFS.

[hussy]

shurrup ya muppet

[China Doll]

I'm sorry to hear of another loss within your family. Have you tried contacting CRUISE? They really are very good and may be able to point both yourself and your family in the direction of some proper support.

[NS08]

Nope.

Everyone has already passed on their sympathies regarding this, she's not the first and won't be the last to go through a traumatic time. The need for her to talk about it on here is perfectly understandable, but when she writes such a long question, which begs the reader to contemplate how best to give and answer, she displays an arrogance and a complete lack of manners by calling people that consider her a friend a bunch of uncalled for names......all because they didn't answer within 15 minutes of her posting....and they're apologising??? The mind boggles.

[hussy]

as i said



shurrup ya muppet


HTH

[NS08]

I'm going to stop posting because you said so? LOL!!

I'm just....now what is it.....oh yeah......"shooting from the hip" and "telling it like it is"

[lindapinda]

I remember that original thread about your ex Dris,and this is another ghastly result of that crash.I'm very sorry to hear what your family is being put through,and,I hope you can all help each other.Life is just so hard at times.

[Ice.Maiden]

I don't think there's any need for sarcasm.

[NS08]

Glad you caught that, because nobody catches it when she's patronising others while up on her self made pedestal.

[hussy]

haven't heard of you before NS08
but no doubt you have been on before!!!!!


if you don't have anything nice to say

then


ADIOS

[pastafreak]

If you bothered to read and UNDERSTAND the post,NS08-you would realise that she and her family have suffered ANOTHER loss...TODAY......dris KNOWS she has friends here who are always willing to support her...and comments like yours(shooting from the hip) are just crass.

[NS08]

I would have thought it was pretty obvious I've been on here before.

[NS08]

Just giving her a little taste of her own bitter medicine.

[Ice.Maiden]

Dris doesn't patronise others NSO8 - she either speaks her mind, or says things as a joke. I've emailed her, and the poor woman could do without all this. She's actually very nice, and I think she's had more than enough grief just lately.
Sorry - that's just the way I see it.

[hussy]

im not as clever as you................. obviously