Pregnant and confused

[creep]

Hello I am in a bit of a situation really. My partner and I are going to have a baby soon yet some things dont really make sense to me. OK here goes we were watching the local news the other day and there were some scenes of young animal cruelty on and he came out with the comment like 'he would be less upset had it been a human baby'. I was initially taken a back by this and thought to myself oh well he just must really like animals I guess. Then we ordered a chinese and he ordered beef and pork. I remembered what his comment was and just though what a hypocrite!

He loves animals more than human babies yet he eats animals!

I really am starting to think he is a complete waste of space and will be a terrible father. What should I do?

[LingShen09]

He sounds like a looser to me, I am pregnant to and my boyfriend gets on my nerves

[creep]

Ling I dont really know what the rest of them are on about. Your name is green the same as mine. Why is this? How far pregnant are you? Why does your boyfriend annoy you? I am just going to make a coffee but will be back soon for a chat if you like x

[creep]

Ling, I am back x

[LingShen09]

I cant talk now because I am supposed to be working I just wanted to get my feelings out because I feel so lonely and fat. I dont know why I am green

[creep]

I see. Well don't work too hard, Ling x

[mandimoo]

ahhh ling, you are green cos you are new on here. you will turn black in a couple of weeks.

[creep]

Oh good it will be like getting a sun tan :) he he

[Velvetee]

Creep, mine said the same thing the other day, (probably watching the same news programme). Don't worry about it. I think you are making more of an issue of it than you should.

Believe me, when your baby comes, your partner would lay down his life to protect him/her.

[creep]

Really Velvetee? Was it about some puppies thrown in the canal but the ise saved them?

[creep]

Velvetee I find it a cooincidece that your boyfriend said exactly the same thing to you and we are both pregnant. Its horrible having a loser as a boyfriend isnt it. This might cheer you up though:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XDdlHmzIdn8

[Velvetee]

Yes that's the one Creep, he said he couldn't bear to watch the report as it broke his heart. I asked him would he feel the same had it been a child and he said no. I said I couldn't understand that mentality, but he just said he loves animals.

Like you Creep, I'm also pregnant, 23 weeks today, (how far are you) I don't hold this comment against him, I know he will make a great dad and do everything he can to look after the baby and me, but understand how you would feel. At the moment I tend to over react to the most minor things, put it down to hormonal changes.

The English are reknown for being animal lovers and his mother had 3 dogs, one of which has been put down. She still cries when she thinks of the dog and I actually think she loves her dogs more than her two sons.

[creep]

Im 10 weeks Velvetee. A long way to go yet x

[Velvetee]

Well congratulations. Don't feel bad against your boyfriend for his idle comment. I'm sure he loves you dearly or he wouldn't have spent loads on your flowers today. Don't look on him as a loser.

[creep]

How much did your boyfriend spend on you this valentines day Velvetee?

[Velvetee]

Well he planned on buying 2 dozen roses at �6 per rose, but I made him cancel them, as I hate flowers. We are going out to dinner in Central London tonight and that will probably set him back a couple of hundred or so.

[creep]

Wow so he would have spent 144 pounds on them!!!!!!!

Thats what mine spent on me!!!!!

Are you sure we are not dating the same man :) he he

[sara3]

hey.. could this be kitesurfer's pregnant girlfriend?!!

[redcrx]

cant be poltergeist's cos he only spent �80

[creep]

did you think that all this really is a coincidence? or it could be kitesurfer himself who was wanting to make Velvetee look like a dork after she called his girlfriend an 'idiot' and a 'sap'

who is the 'idiot' now velvetee?



ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha



ok so its game set and match to me velvetee now can we just get back to you giving me your opinions about my problems? I liked those times :(

[sara3]

I'll take that as a win!