jez, this is interesting - everyone realises that girls and young women are influenced by celebs and magazines about body image, obviously this applies to guys too. Most men aren't male models - if you look fit to yourself, and everything is in the right place, then be body-confident about your looks. I f I were looking again, I wouldn't want to date someone who was more concerned about what he looked like, than being a really nice guy and fun to be with. I'd rather you spent your money in other ways than chest waxing - and once you start, you just have to keep doing it, you know...