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Suspected cheating
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Hi Guys,
I have a feeling my wife may be having an affair. Shes secretive with Facebook and her phone. I found a mobile phone number written down which I know i wasnt meant to see.
Is there anyway of checking if that number has been used? Either as a call or text?
Im so gutted but dont want to confront her til i have solid evidence.
I dont know her online account password or username for her phone bill. And i doubt T Mobile will disclose that info
Please help.
Thank you in advance.
Desperate times call for desperate measures.
I have a feeling my wife may be having an affair. Shes secretive with Facebook and her phone. I found a mobile phone number written down which I know i wasnt meant to see.
Is there anyway of checking if that number has been used? Either as a call or text?
Im so gutted but dont want to confront her til i have solid evidence.
I dont know her online account password or username for her phone bill. And i doubt T Mobile will disclose that info
Please help.
Thank you in advance.
Desperate times call for desperate measures.
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For more on marking an answer as the "Best Answer", please visit our FAQ.Whenever she gets a text, she doesnt look at it til i move away from her. Sometimes i can see the glow of her phone light up (as it does when you get a text) and she glances at the light so shes alerted to the fact shes got one. Also phone on silent.
I ask, but she says its her friends or sister. Thats why i just wanna know if the number i found has been used.
I ask, but she says its her friends or sister. Thats why i just wanna know if the number i found has been used.
How do you know you weren't mean to see the number?
Sometimes things can appear to be more than they are. I once suspected b/f of being up to something as he put a pin on his phone and it was either alway in his pocket or he didn't bring it with him. I found out the pin once so looked at it and all I found was a a bunch of texts about football and calls to me, his mum, his mates, etc. I asked him why he put a pin on and was reminded of the fact his other phone got nicked and he got rinsed on the bill.
Sometimes things can appear to be more than they are. I once suspected b/f of being up to something as he put a pin on his phone and it was either alway in his pocket or he didn't bring it with him. I found out the pin once so looked at it and all I found was a a bunch of texts about football and calls to me, his mum, his mates, etc. I asked him why he put a pin on and was reminded of the fact his other phone got nicked and he got rinsed on the bill.
if there is a genuine change in her behaviour then maybe you have some grounds for suspicion....
However you cannot accuse without any evidence....
You could bluff her - by saying (with a stoney face) "I know"... "I know all about it"... I want you to be honest with me now and tell me why? I dont understand what I have done wrong and why you would do this to me etc etc
Keep it non-descript... then she may 'fess' up to something!!
However you cannot accuse without any evidence....
You could bluff her - by saying (with a stoney face) "I know"... "I know all about it"... I want you to be honest with me now and tell me why? I dont understand what I have done wrong and why you would do this to me etc etc
Keep it non-descript... then she may 'fess' up to something!!
I think you might be jumping to conclusions a bit here...
If the number that she supposedly "arranged" for you to find really is of another man, what do you suppose she expected you to do with it? Ring him up and confront him? Surely if she wanted you to find out, she'd just tell you...
If she is having an affair and doesn't want you to find out, why would she allow him to text her when he knows she's at home with you...?
If the number that she supposedly "arranged" for you to find really is of another man, what do you suppose she expected you to do with it? Ring him up and confront him? Surely if she wanted you to find out, she'd just tell you...
If she is having an affair and doesn't want you to find out, why would she allow him to text her when he knows she's at home with you...?
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