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efences | 13:46 Tue 11th Jan 2011 | Relationships & Dating
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Hi Guys,

I have a feeling my wife may be having an affair. Shes secretive with Facebook and her phone. I found a mobile phone number written down which I know i wasnt meant to see.

Is there anyway of checking if that number has been used? Either as a call or text?

Im so gutted but dont want to confront her til i have solid evidence.

I dont know her online account password or username for her phone bill. And i doubt T Mobile will disclose that info

Please help.

Thank you in advance.

Desperate times call for desperate measures.
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Mark...in my case she didn't know I existed.
Mark.....he texts her....her mobile is on buzz or silent..............no problems.

This is a windup, but even if it isnt..........she is having an affair.
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Thanks for all your advice. I'm gonna have to ask her.
What are you lol'ling about sqad?!!!! ;-)

Yup efences - she's having an affair. Either that, or she's definitely not.
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Sqad, this is no wind up.
Sqad - why do you always think that threads like this are a wind up?
even if it is a wind up, i think its quite insensitive to find humour in such things.

it really is quite low.
I agree with Pinki. You need to look at the bigger picture. Has anything else changed? Is she going out more?
ummmm....because they usually are and the outcome of our advice is rarely seen.
I cant believe that a) you do the washing and b) take paper out of pockets. I do the washing but have never managed to remember to take stuff out of pockets. There are often messy white bits everywhere after the wash .......
I don't think it's a wind up either.
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In the last month she has had a bit of an attitude change. Things seem to annoy her (not just me) easier.

I know the signs are there to confirm it, but wondered if there was anyway of finding out if that number has been used.,

But like i said, i'm going to have to confront her.
Re: Sqad's suspicions - http://www.theanswerb...s/Question848659.html - "Hi guys i'm a newbie so be gentle!" ... why would you feel it necessary to state that?

Pattern forming here?
Have you tried Googling the number...?
No Sqad...they usually aren't. You just remember the ones that are.

efences - any change in the bedroom department?
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Sqad,

Why would i waste my time? I asked a question to seek advice. Thats all. I actually do have a life and trolling Answerbank isnt at the top of my list
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Text the number:

"Sorry had to get new mobile number: You OK?"
Naz, he could have been reading before he joined. He might have even read some of CB..
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I dont really come on here, but because this is only my 2nd post, i'm a wind up?

Christ...

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