quiz, the difference (subtle I agree) when women wear jeans is that, by and large, they are wearing jeans designed to be worn by women.
As I said earlier, what i find interesting is how much “what is worn by women/men” and adjuncts like hairstyles and jewellery, is a social and ethnic construct and one which changes with time, often quite quickly.
I wonder what people who are drawn to cross dress will choose to wear once there is no divide between what is acceptable for men and women to wear? I mean I know that the answer will be “whatever they like, the same as everyone else.” but I wonder what they will be drawn to to fulfil their need to wear the clothing of the opposite gender?