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sis rang up from far away for a long chat this morning. She's been having the odd brain blip (she's in her late 60s) and after several months got an appointment with a neurologist, who turned out not to have even looked at her scan and sent her home to make another appointment. She says her symptoms seem to be like long covid, though she's never had covid at all. She says friends who have it all say that you should never tell doctors you've had covid if you've got any sort of complaint, as they'll just say "that's normal" and send you home. If you shut up about it they take symptoms seriously and investigate.
However, sis has learnt a lesson from OH's passing and is now busy decluttering her house, drawing up a will requiring no resuscitation, nobody to be told she's died except those who need to sign forms, and no funeral. In case her brain blip turns into dementia (which Google says it might), she's also accumulating enough pills to kill herself (she has a thousand so far, which should be enough to kill an elephant). She has no spouse or children, and I think plans to leave what little she has to nephews and nieces. Gotta admire her determination but I don't think I'll follow suit.