My girlfriend is pregnant and doesnt want it or me

[Patrick19]

Me and my ex girlfriend have had rocky rides together.
We fell out numerous times and most recently we had a big fall out, that was, until she sent me a text message on my mobile telling me she was pregnant and sending me a picture of the pregnancy test. She has told me she does not want to keep it, but many times has she given much desire to keep it. We broke up last night because of many complications. She told me hurtful things, mainly because of problems such as me being unemployed. I am having to do so much to get my life in order, but I am confused as to her plans. As I know her quite well, I think she has maternal feelings for our baby. But, she tells me she wants an abortion and to never see me again; knowingly, one would believe she has totally made a prerogative on the issue and I am the only loser. I don't know what to do, she wants space and I am going to have to give her some. I think it's a defense mechanism because of many of the things that complicated our relationship, such as me being possessive etcetera.

[redcrx]

toffee!!! the real crunchy stuff

[Pippa68]

Am I allowed some, even though I work the projector?

[babyC]

If Patrick fails to return, it's because he's been sectioned.

What? Antagonising it? Me? Never.

[redcrx]

that projector is a bit old, it looks like you have to wind it up to get it going lol

Help yourself but leave me more than just the unpopped kernals please

[notfrom-oz]

yuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuum toffee!!!! my fav!!! thanks red!!

[Pippa68]

Well it is as old as me, red...

I am sorry you are all waiting for more. There has been an ever so slight delay due to the fact that this feature is crap.

Please fee free to stay around and snark popcorn :o)

[redcrx]

anyone see the ice-cream lady yet? this popcorns running a bit low

[notfrom-oz]

ive got some Pepsi and tea feel free !!!!!!!!!!! but please make sure you wipe up any spillages iv just cleaned

[redcrx]

is it diet pepsi notfrom? ive got to make up for the popcorn calories :)

[Salamanda]

Ok I am not an escort. I was not seriously thinking of that. But if I was does that mean I deserve to be abused and raped and stalked? You are all being immature, I dont know why this has not been taken off as I reported it. I dont want everyone knowing my business. And shouldnt have to explain myself. Dont provoke him and if he has got a job then thank god, he wont have too much time on his hands to stalk me and frighten me. Thats my last word on AB. Im sorry i have to leave this site, I used to enjoy it but everything in my life has been destroyed thanks to Patrick.

[ummmm]

We are acting immature because Patrick is a knob....

[Pippa68]

No, you don't deserve it to be raped & stalked.

I gave my reasons for posting that link to your Q.

You had better get a restraining order on the twart.

[Pippa68]

Sorry to disappoint you..he doesn't have a job.

[redcrx]

no woman deserves to be raped or stalked it just seemed odd that you would publicly announce that here.

[ummmm]

In all fairness....maybe she is just pointing out what an evil twisted plonk Patrick is....

[Pippa68]

After reading a few of salamandas threads and replies, it seems she was quite unhappy/depressed before she met Patrick.

There may be more to this *relationship* than meets the eye, but I don't agree that she is leaving AB because of this thread. On the contrary, she may feel foolish for even joining the thread in the first place. A better option would have been to print the lot off for the cops. Maybe this has been done, I don't know.

The rape issue was brought up by Salamanda ~ why does she then say she doesn't want anyone knowing her business?

[rockonbaby]

I am a friend of salamanda's and will also be reporting this question and not because of you guys but cos of Patrick! I have seen first hand what he can do and I've stupidly tried to explain to him why what he is doing is wrong and as I'm sure you are all more then aware of now, it was a waste of breath! I have been stuck at salamanda's house til 4am cos Patrick will not leave and I am hoping that he will now leave her alone she is moving on with her life and I hope for his sake (and my own sanity) that Patrick will too!

Oh and just as an after thought I am only saying this to defend my friend and I also want to say the pregnancy was not planned! And her alergations are true!

[Pippa68]

Have the police done anything?

I would keep this thread for evidence. We can all see he is unhinged ~ my suggestion to him that he rings the samaritans was no joke.

Be a good friend.

[rockonbaby]

The police have been contacted, please everyone do not incourage him or reply to him anymore! He will probably be really abusive about me after this, but I do not care anymore and it will do no good to argue with him except to keep his little fantasy of being an illectual going!

Please do not reply to him and thank you everyone

[notfrom-oz]

am i alowed to just say yes it is diet pepsi ummmmmmmmmmmmm....sorry....thanks......