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Suspected cheating
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Hi Guys,
I have a feeling my wife may be having an affair. Shes secretive with Facebook and her phone. I found a mobile phone number written down which I know i wasnt meant to see.
Is there anyway of checking if that number has been used? Either as a call or text?
Im so gutted but dont want to confront her til i have solid evidence.
I dont know her online account password or username for her phone bill. And i doubt T Mobile will disclose that info
Please help.
Thank you in advance.
Desperate times call for desperate measures.
I have a feeling my wife may be having an affair. Shes secretive with Facebook and her phone. I found a mobile phone number written down which I know i wasnt meant to see.
Is there anyway of checking if that number has been used? Either as a call or text?
Im so gutted but dont want to confront her til i have solid evidence.
I dont know her online account password or username for her phone bill. And i doubt T Mobile will disclose that info
Please help.
Thank you in advance.
Desperate times call for desperate measures.
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For more on marking an answer as the "Best Answer", please visit our FAQ.I agree with Pink...my ex cheated on me. I knew deep he was cheating but didn't do anything about it because 1) we had a business together. and 2) he worked away and only came back once or twice a month.
It all came to light when he started accusing me of cheating. As we had a business, and I did the accounts, I just went through his phone bills (we had 10 contract mobiles) I just highlighted every call made after 8pm and looked for a recurring number...job done in less than 10 minutes.....My opinion was 'if you think I'm doing it the chances are you are'
It all came to light when he started accusing me of cheating. As we had a business, and I did the accounts, I just went through his phone bills (we had 10 contract mobiles) I just highlighted every call made after 8pm and looked for a recurring number...job done in less than 10 minutes.....My opinion was 'if you think I'm doing it the chances are you are'
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I soooo trusted hubby no' 1, the only change in him was the last 6 month (while trying for baby no'2) he started making my life hell, arguements etc so I though he wanted us to split SO I LEFT..
Then I saw the bigger picture.
He had been seeing her at work "he was a taxi driver" also on his on night out a week WITH THE LADS which I fell for.
Then I saw the bigger picture.
He had been seeing her at work "he was a taxi driver" also on his on night out a week WITH THE LADS which I fell for.
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Arwyn....it's easy to be 'on the ball' when you don't care. It was just an inconvenience having to chuck him out. The kids didn't even notice that I had.
I learnt by mistakes....and hopefully you have Arwyn. Trust your instincts...if you don't think your man is cheating...sit back and relax and enjoy the relationship and let the past stay in the past :-)
I learnt by mistakes....and hopefully you have Arwyn. Trust your instincts...if you don't think your man is cheating...sit back and relax and enjoy the relationship and let the past stay in the past :-)
I found out by accident that my ex was cheating,as he was definitely one of those guys whom NO-ONE would see as a cheater.....never looked at other women...not very passionate....always worked hard.
At the time-we both had the same mobile....one night I had texted our daughter-she was going through a very difficult and wayward phase...and I made sure I knew where she was every night-just to touch base. I was in bed reading,when my husbands mobile text alert went off. My immediate -almost instinctive -reaction was that it was Cassie responding on his phone because mine was off or something. I just went-and looked at the text.
It was something along the lines of "oh I guess we are through now,as you've not called...blah,blah"....I thought it was a 'wrong number'....and ignored.....until another,very similar text came through 10 minutes later. I just took the mobile downstairs to my husband-and handed it to him-saying "your mobile has rung..."
I NEVER said a thing to him about it......and I left him almost a year later......but before I left him,I DID have a look in his phone to see if he was still 'involved'......yep he was. This was almost 6 years ago-he lives with her now.
At the time-we both had the same mobile....one night I had texted our daughter-she was going through a very difficult and wayward phase...and I made sure I knew where she was every night-just to touch base. I was in bed reading,when my husbands mobile text alert went off. My immediate -almost instinctive -reaction was that it was Cassie responding on his phone because mine was off or something. I just went-and looked at the text.
It was something along the lines of "oh I guess we are through now,as you've not called...blah,blah"....I thought it was a 'wrong number'....and ignored.....until another,very similar text came through 10 minutes later. I just took the mobile downstairs to my husband-and handed it to him-saying "your mobile has rung..."
I NEVER said a thing to him about it......and I left him almost a year later......but before I left him,I DID have a look in his phone to see if he was still 'involved'......yep he was. This was almost 6 years ago-he lives with her now.